Pei Jing muses about his two retrenchment experiences and the Dhamma lessons he took away: 1) save up a quarter of your salary when you do earn; 2) investigate and understand your suffering; 3) do good; 4) play up your strengths.
You have placed your best effort. But the problems keep cascading in from all directions. Is this really the dead end? What can you do? Wasn't this always the problem I have always tried to climb and solve? Giving up is tough, so knowing when to give up is key. Here are two stories to help you decide what's best for you!
1. When obstacles come into your life, ask this question
2. It can be a great thing to give up.
"That's just the way it is" Have you been uttering that to yourself lately as you knock out from work? You might be stuck in the rat race. Recognising our "stuck-ness" is the first step into taking active directions to change our life's trajectory. The year has ended. What will you do in 2023? Here are two sharings to get you in a better state for 2023.
1. "That's just the way things are": Signs you are in a rat race
2. The curse of comparison
Be humble. Don't claim credit. Heard this at work or during projects? How often do we undermine ourselves at work and amongst friends? Here are two stories today to help you take credit when it is due and how to remove hesistance
1. I don't deserve it, other people do much more.
2. Interrupting your what ifs
How can we avoid becoming the colleague that everyone loves to hate? Asking for advice from your subordinates during your 1-on-1s and applying metta just might be key! In this article, we explore how to treat our colleagues using Dhamma principles.
How should we conduct ourselves at work. What is better than focusing on improving on our faults? How do we deal with attraction at the workplace when we are in a committed relationship?